Struggling With Your Child's Emotions & Behaviours?
Wondering How Best To Support Them?
Our simple and actionable approach will help you, your children and your family achieve emotional freedom, with appropriate behaviours and better results.
Young people in the UK have higher mental health needs than ever. 1 in 6 young people in England (aged 5 to 16) experienced a mental health problem in 2020, up from 1 in 9 in 2017.
Source: NHS Digital (2020)
Learn how to understand emotions (yours and others) and harness the energy they provide, to drive actions and behaviours that will fuel your family's success.
Enrol in our Parenting for Success ProgrammeTHERE IS A WAY
You Can Create Emotional Freedom & Transform Difficult Behaviours
Learn the formula to building emotional intelligence skills and use it to:
- Improve your own life success, health and wellbeing
- Create a home environment in which everyone can thrive
- Connect with your children at an emotional level so you can understand what's driving their behaviours
- Inspire your children to be more resilient with the skills to find solutions to their own problems
- Shift poor behaviours using techniques that encourage more engagement and less resistance
- Live the emotionally free life that feels energising, positive and more enjoyable.
Yes, It Really Is Possible!
In our Parenting for Success Programme, you’ll learn how to parent 'intentionally' with more knowledge and confidence so that you can support you, your children and your family, to enjoy a richer, more fulfilling life, achieving success in the fullest sense.
FREE GIFT
Take The Parenting For Success Quiz…
Discover how your parenting style is influencing your home environment.
This Quiz is designed to show parents their blind spots, with steps on how to enhance emotional growth in children, improving quality of life for you and your family.
Take the QUIZINTRODUCING
The Parenting For Success Programme
The world is becoming faster, more complex with more choice than ever before. In spite of a living cost crisis, there is more abundance coupled with higher expectations than ever before.
This increased complexity, choice and expectation creates overwhelm, anxiety and disappointment.
• Do I have enough?
• Am I making the right choice?
• What are others doing?
• Will I be approved of or judged?
And so on...
The impact? These unpleasant emotions are driving challenging behaviours.
The solution? We need to find a way to live with technology, abundance of choice and information, complexity and uncertainty, that doesn’t have a detrimental impact on our physical and mental health and wellbeing. We need to adopt habits that will achieve true life success.
Design Your Home Environment For Thriving
Emotions, generally, are running high, with levels of stress, anxiety and depression and mental health issues higher than ever before.
This is exacerbated for young people, at a time when their brains (and bodies) are still developing.
They are overwhelmed, with little opportunity to learn the life skills needed to navigate the world they are growing up in.
Furthermore, the leaders they look towards (parents, educators, employers etc) are ill-equipped to model these skills or support young people experiencing high emotions and challenging behaviours. This is different to the world they grew up in.
In fact, there is a 'perfect storm' creating a vicious cycle:
- Young people are struggling;
- Behaviours become challenging;
- Expectations are higher, further increasing anxieties;
On top of this:
- Parents, educators, leaders etc are also struggling;
- Emotions are contagious (especially negative ones);
- Choice, complexity, pace etc continue to rise.
The current system isn't working - something needs to change.
Young people don't need to be fixed, they need to be understood, equipped with skills and inspired to take action.
We need to provide an environment in which young people can thrive, where they feel completely safe, and they can grow, practise behaviours and learn what works and what doesn’t.
We need to stop the old paradigm patterns of controlling and fixing and shift to the new paradigm of challenging and coaching to increase resilience and inspire a new world of young people able to create solutions to their problems.
Join Our Parenting For Success ProgrammeFOCUS ON WHAT MATTERS
Work on the Drivers For Life Success
To thrive and fulfil our full potential we need to ensure our five core human needs are met. Unmet needs typically show up as unpleasant emotions such as anxiety, frustration or demotivation, accompanied with undesirable behaviours.
The most effective parents create environments that pay attention to these drivers.
Safety
Safety is the foundation stone for thriving. When we feel 'psychologically safe' we are able to explore, collaborate and create.
Meaning
Understanding 'why' something is done enables us to tap into our intrinsic motivation improving engagement and performance.
Belonging
Each 'tribe' is unique, bonded by their 'values'. When we are aligned, we have that sense of belonging, feeling accepted and appreciated.
Growth
We have an innate desire to better ourselves, learn new skills and develop mastery of skills. This starts autonomy and freedom to grow.
Achievement
Goals are important for setting objectives and measuring progress as well as providing a sense of satisfaction for a 'job well done'
This Programme Is For You If...
- You are at a loss about how best to support your children
- You aren’t sure if you what you're doing is effective
- Your go to strategies are no longer working
- You want to enjoy being a parent
- You want your children to take the reins but this makes you feel anxious
What's Included In The Programme...
PART 1
Foundations for Success
Understand what ingredients are needed for people to thrive (not just survive).
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Understand your home ‘culture’
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Build character - start with the end in mind
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Trust - the linchpin for success and basis for safety
You’ll work on strategies to build trust and create the family culture that will inspire character traits and behaviours that you value.
PART 2
YOU, the Leader and Key Influencer in Your Family
Your words will be undermined if you fail to 'DO AS YOU SAY'. Your child's transformation starts with you. We learn so much from observing and modelling others.
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Understand what's driving your behaviours
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Explore your impact on yourself, others and the home environment
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Learn how to use an emotions compass to understand your needs and guide you
You will work on how to modify your style and responses to create the results you desire
PART 3
Inspiring and Motivating Your Children
The secret to inspiring others is to stop doing it all yourself and tap into intrinsic motivation. In this module, you’ll learn:
- The different types of motivation
- How to shift the cycle from resistance to engagement
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How to build strong relationships with tough love
You will work on how to use different motivation strategies to suit the situation and engender more self-responsibility
PART 4
Design Your Environment to Prompt Desired Behaviours
Our environments, physical and cultural, have a subliminal impact on us, prompting us to do certain activities and how we do them. In this module, you’ll learn:
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What messages your environment is communicating
- How to develop healthy habits and stop unhealthy habits
- Ways to alter your space to prompt certain actions
You’ll finish this programme with lots of new ideas and strategies together with a sense of purpose to parent with confidence.
NICE TO MEET YOU
I'm Lisa Allen
Emotional Wellbeing Expert
I'd like to share my personal story with you.
For many years, I achieved what many people would describe as success, with a long list of qualifications, achievements and material goods to show for it.
And yet I was deeply unhappy, unable to enjoy it all, feeling an imposter and never good enough.
Not only did this impact me, it impacted our family, my husband and how I showed up as a parent. I overcompensated wanting my children to have a different experience, and caused a host of different challenges for them.
And then following a few significant life events it all changed.
Through therapy, self-help and personal development, I learned how to manage my own emotional wellbeing and transform those sabotaging behaviour patterns that were holding me back and causing my mental suffering. I also gleaned insights on how to be a more effective parent which had a life-changing impact on my youngest daughter particularly, who suffered with crippling anxiety.
And now I help other parents and leaders to find emotional freedom and create environments in which others can thrive, achieving success in the fullest sense, with enjoyment & wellbeing at the core.
Life is here to enjoy, not just to get through...
"It made me realise that what I say may not help my child. Very helpful - I am not them!"
"So useful to understand the connection between emotions and how our brains work and to reflect on my responses too"
"Great safe space to learn. I found it very useful and came away with lots of practical tools."
CLAIM YOUR FREE EMOTIONS COMPASS SO YOU CAN START CHECKING IN ON WHAT EMOTIONS ARE DRIVING THE BEHAVIOURS
Join Our Parenting for Success Waiting List
We are running the programme in two formats, in person at a location in Croydon, Greater London and online via Zoom. You will also have the choice of joining an age-related group - primary, transition to secondary and teenager.
*There will be a limited number of spaces available to join our in person programme.